kink in New York City

The first Tuesday of every month at 7 PM, Rockbar becomes a welcoming gathering space for the ABDL community — a chance to connect with people who get it, without judgment. Come for the camaraderie, raffle prizes, and a room...

The Eagle's free weekly Tuesday night draws a steady crowd of leather and kink enthusiasts ready to unwind midweek. No cover, no pretense — just a room full of regulars and newcomers alike who know how to make a weeknight...

A kink-forward drag show featuring Pink Pancake, Show Ponii, and Mariyea — plus a prettiest penis competition with $100 cash prizes. Photos by Rude Polaroids. 21+, free entry.

A leather and kink-focused night at BOYFRIEND co-op café + bar, bringing together the community for an evening centered on gear, style, and connection. Whether you're deep in the scene or curious about it, this is a welcoming space to...

Every second Saturday at 10pm, NOODZ brings the heat with dark room drag shows, heavy beats, and XXX pics on display. $10 entry, $1 clothing check (optional — you can keep your clothes on and still have a blast). This...

San Francisco's legendary sound-forward pit fetish night finally lands in Brooklyn. Sweat to a carefully curated sonic experience, compete in the camp Ripe Pit contest, and leave with a new friend or two. Petrichor (MOANS.NYC) holds down the resident DJ...

The monthly gathering for the chastity and kink community — a photo booth, cage checks, and clothes check available if you want it. No cover, second Tuesday every month at Rockbar. A straightforward space to connect with people who get...

The Eagle's free weekly Tuesday night draws a steady crowd of leather and kink enthusiasts ready to unwind midweek. No cover, no pretense — just a room full of regulars and newcomers alike who know how to make a weeknight...

The Eagle's free weekly Tuesday night draws a steady crowd of leather and kink enthusiasts ready to unwind midweek. No cover, no pretense — just a room full of regulars and newcomers alike who know how to make a weeknight...

Rope At Rockbar is Knotty New York's new monthly suspension and bondage night — a gathering for riggers, curious learners, and anyone who appreciates the artistry of rope. Watch skilled performers execute live suspension demos on Rockbar's brand-new ceiling anchor...

The Eagle's free weekly Tuesday night draws a steady crowd of leather and kink enthusiasts ready to unwind midweek. No cover, no pretense — just a room full of regulars and newcomers alike who know how to make a weeknight...

New York's monthly fisting social for all experience levels — no judgment, no pressure, just people who get it gathering to connect. Whether you're curious, experienced, or anywhere in between, FFriendly is built on the idea that showing up is...

The first Tuesday of every month at 7 PM, Rockbar hosts Diaper Happy Hour — a judgment-free gathering for the ABDL community to connect, socialize, and celebrate their interests with people who get it. It's 21+ with ID required, and...

The Eagle's free weekly Tuesday night draws a steady crowd of leather and kink enthusiasts ready to unwind midweek. No cover, no pretense — just a room full of regulars and newcomers alike who know how to make a weeknight...

The monthly gathering for folks into chastity and kink — a photo booth, cage checks, and clothes check available if you want it. No cover, second Tuesday every month at 7pm. Low-key, judgment-free space hosted by Peter Cage Studio.

Every second Saturday at 10pm, Noodz brings the heat with dark room drag shows, heavy beats, and an XXX photo exhibition that pushes boundaries. It's $10 to get in, $200 if you want to submit your best anonymous photo to...

A new monthly gathering for rope artistry and suspension — Knotty New York brings live demos to Rockbar's newly installed ceiling anchors, one of the few setups in NYC equipped for safe, professional rigging. Watch skilled riggers work their craft...

New York's monthly fisting social for all experience levels — no judgment, no pressure, just people who get it gathering to meet and connect. Whether you're curious or a regular, whether you show up to play or just to hang,...

The first Tuesday of every month, the ABDL community gathers at Rockbar for Diaper Happy Hour — a judgment-free space to connect with people who get it, swap stories, and just be yourself. 21+ only. There's a raffle, a welcoming...

The second Tuesday of every month, Locked brings the kink community together for a no-cover social centered on chastity play and gear. Expect a photo booth, cage checks, clothes check available, and a room full of people who know how...