LGBTQ+ Chosen Family Events

Rise's Saturday drag brunch is the weekend reset you actually want to show up for — two seatings at 12:15pm and 2:30pm, both packed with live drag performances, strong cocktails, and a room full of people ready to celebrate. It's...

Saturday afternoon at 3 Dollar Bill turns into the kind of tea dance where you actually want to be — a room full of bears and their people, good music, and the kind of energy that comes from a community...

Saturday nights at Rockbar get a little less dressed — Noodz is the kind of uninhibited, body-positive party where the vibe is playful and the dress code is optional. Expect a packed dance floor, a crowd that's here to have...

Two free drag shows every Saturday at Albatross—rotating queens take the stage at 8pm, then resident queen Sutton Lee Seymour and special guests return at 11pm. It's become the reliable Saturday night anchor in Astoria, the kind of show where...

Pieces Bar's weekend happy hour is where the neighborhood comes to reset — cheap drinks that actually taste good, and a crowd that knows how to have a time. Six-dollar margaritas, mimosas, and bloody marys until 8pm, plus eight-dollar LITs...

Shed the layers and hit the dance floor in nothing but your underwear — it's the kind of uninhibited, sweaty, unapologetic fun that only happens at VERS. Late-night dancing, a packed crowd ready to let loose, and the freedom to...

Two seatings every Sunday at Rise — 12:15pm and 2:30pm — where drag performances, craft cocktails, and a room full of people ready to celebrate collide over brunch. It's become the kind of Sunday tradition that actually makes you want...

Skinny brunch kicks off at 1pm with $5 mimosas and bloody marys running until 6pm, then Diana Carfire takes over at 3:30pm to host bingo with actual cash prizes on the line. It's the kind of Sunday afternoon that turns...

A half-day summit bringing together trans and gender-diverse youth, parents, caregivers, and allies for connection, learning, and community building. Expect practical workshops on gender-affirming healthcare, legal rights, mental health support, and daily life navigation—plus direct access to local organizations and...

A Saturday afternoon gathering where video game lovers and fantasy nerds come together to hang out, sip drinks, and geek out over shared obsessions. Meeting House Tavern's got the vibe for it—board games, Skee-Ball, and a crowd that actually gets...

Sunday brunch at Kit Kat Club is the kind of meal that turns into an event—good food, strong drinks, and the Kit Kat Divas performing in full drag glory while you're trying to enjoy your eggs. The Art Deco space...

Free hot dogs, cold drinks, and an easy Sunday hang at SoFo Tap. Noon to 3pm every week—no cover, no pretense, just a solid reason to get out and settle in for the afternoon with your people.

The second Sunday of every month, Windy City Pups and Handlers gathers at Jackhammer from 3 to 5 PM for community, connection, and celebration of the human-pup lifestyle. Whether you're a seasoned handler or curious about the scene, this is...

Sunday evening at Jackhammer for the furry community to gather, connect, and celebrate. A laid-back space to meet fellow furs, swap stories, and enjoy the bar's welcoming vibe in a judgment-free zone that gets what alternative communities are all about.

A Sunday night poker game for the community at Meeting House Tavern. Low-key, social, and welcoming to players of all skill levels — just show up ready to play and hang with folks who get it.

Monday nights at 2Bears belong to the regulars who show up for Squabble — a reliably rowdy game night where the competition is real, the drinks are cheap, and the trash talk is part of the charm. It's the kind...

Saturday brunch the way it should be — bottomless mimosas, drag performers working the room, and a kitchen that knows how to do brunch favorites right. Two seatings keep things moving (10:30am and 1pm), so pick your time and come...

Saturday nights at the Eagle belong to the bears and their people — strong drinks at special prices, a room full of folks who get the vibe, and the kind of genuine community that's made this a Denver institution. No...

Sunday brunch done right — bottomless mimosas, a full menu of brunch favorites, and rotating drag performers who know how to work a room. Two seatings (10:30am and 1pm) mean you can pick your timing and settle in for the...

Celebrate the moms, mothers, and maternal figures in your life with a special brunch at #VYBE. Enjoy a delicious meal, craft cocktails, and the company of people who matter most in a welcoming space that honors all kinds of families...

Sunday nights at The Pearl are for learning East Coast Swing — whether you're stepping onto a dance floor for the first time or you've been dancing for years. The vibe is welcoming and fun, the energy is infectious, and...

Learn the original partnered swing dance straight from Harlem—Lindy Hop is joyful, energetic, and bound to put a smile on your face. Whether you've never danced before or just want to try something new, these beginner lessons will teach you...

Test your knowledge and have a laugh with the sapphic and queer community at The Pearl's weekly trivia night. Bring your sharpest team, expect some surprises, and stick around for drinks and good company. Tuesdays at 7pm — no pressure,...

Tuesday nights at Hamburger Mary's belong to the folks who show up for taco-themed burgers, free trivia, and a chance to prove they actually know something. Brittany Blaze keeps things sharp and funny while you and your crew compete for...

Eric takes over Sunday nights at Rosewood with a crowd that's there for the music, the sports on screen, and the kind of easy-going vibe that makes you want to stick around longer than you planned. It's the neighborhood's reliable...

Real talk with people who actually get it — peer counseling at William Way is where you can work through what's on your mind with folks from the community who've been there. It's not clinical or formal; it's the kind...

Donna and Daniel host Rosewood's weekly bingo night — the kind of Monday reset that keeps regulars coming back. It's low-key, social, and exactly the excuse you need to get out and be around your people. Games start at 6...

A Tuesday morning gathering for gay and older men who want to connect with folks in their community over coffee and conversation. No agenda, no pressure—just a relaxed space to build friendships and find your people. William Way's been hosting...

A movement class built for bodies over 50 who want to dance without the pressure or pretense. You'll move to music you actually like, at a pace that feels good, surrounded by people who get it — no judgment, just...

Real talk with people who actually get it—peer counseling at William Way is where you can work through what's on your mind with someone from the community who's been there. Tuesday evenings at 6pm, you'll find a confidential space built...

Monday nights at Marsha's belong to trivia — seven o'clock sharp, no cover, and a crowd that actually knows their stuff. It's the kind of low-key, reliable thing a neighborhood bar does best: good questions, cheap drinks, and the satisfaction...

Palace South Beach is throwing a birthday brunch for one of Miami's most beloved drag performers, Missy Meyaki Lepaige. Expect the kind of celebration that only happens when a community icon gets the spotlight — drag performances, good food, and...

Celebrate mom at R House's annual Mother's Day drag brunch, hosted by RuPaul's Drag Race star Athena Dion in her homecoming weekend. Expect chef-driven family-style menus, bottomless mimosas and cocktails, a Devil Wears Prada runway contest, and special touches like...

Saturday and Sunday mornings at R House Wynwood belong to Miami's most iconic drag brunch — family-style spreads, bottomless drinks, and a rotating lineup of performers who know how to work a room. It's the kind of event that's become...

The queer way to close out your weekend—a T-Dance that actually knows how to have fun. DJ Aulden Brown keeps the energy high while Bonnie Builder hosts games that range from ridiculous to legendary (yes, Drag Musical Chairs and Pass...

It's like karaoke at your bestie's place—if your bestie had a Miami Beach gay bar and a knack for making Mondays fun as hell. Get your mic ready at 8:00 p.m. every Monday, whether you're belting out your favorite hits...

It's like karaoke at your bestie's place—if your bestie had a Miami Beach gay bar and a knack for making Mondays fun as hell. Get your mic ready at 8:00 p.m. every Monday, whether you're belting out your favorite hits...

A benefit show for Eddie's Ranch featuring the vocal talents of Robin Burrage with Joe Mulholland on piano. This is a chance to support a great cause while enjoying an afternoon of live performance in an intimate setting at Club...

Saturday nights at Blend get gloriously chaotic — expect a packed dance floor, high-energy DJ sets, and a crowd that knows how to lose it. This is the kind of night that keeps you coming back, week after week.

Celebrate the moms in your life with a proper brunch at Club Café — good food, strong drinks, and live piano from Tom Lamark with special guest Katie. Doors open at 11am, entertainment starts at noon. It's the kind of...

Sunday afternoon dance party for the bear community, hosted by LANES with go-go dancer Darrin Friedman. Four hours of dancing, no cover charge, 21+. This is the kind of welcoming, unpretentious gathering that keeps the community coming back—good music, good...

Boston's best drag bingo happens every Monday at Club Café, hosted by the legendary Mizery. Expect great prizes, live performances, and surprise guests — all with no cover charge. It's the kind of night that keeps people coming back: low-pressure...

Test your knowledge against a room full of queer trivia enthusiasts at Club Café's weekly brain battle. Teams compete for bragging rights and prizes while the crowd keeps things lively. It's the kind of Tuesday night that actually gives you...

The leather community gathers to celebrate and send off San Francisco's finest heading to International Mr. Leather in Chicago. It's the kind of afternoon where chosen family comes together — a mix of leather pride, dancing, and genuine connection before...

A Mother's Day celebration that gets it — honoring the queens, the chosen family, and the people who've held us down. The Stud's bringing drag performers to the stage on a Sunday afternoon, which means good energy, community vibes, and...

SF Eagle's legendary Sunday afternoon tradition — cheap beer, a packed dance floor, and a room full of regulars who've made this their weekly gathering. Every dollar goes straight to local LGBTQ+ nonprofits and charities, so you're drinking for a...

Start your week with live music and a crowd that actually knows the words. Musical Mondays at The Edge brings the showtunes energy to Castro's favorite neighborhood bar — plus 2-for-1 drinks and chips keep the night affordable and the...

A Tuesday evening to connect with people doing meaningful work in the queer community — whether you're already volunteering, thinking about getting involved, or just want to meet folks who care. The Stud's a perfect spot for this kind of...

A Tuesday night where chess meets community at Mother — the kind of low-key gathering where you can show up solo and leave with new people to grab drinks with. Whether you're a serious player or just learning the game,...

South Florida's monthly gathering for foot enthusiasts — a laid-back early evening where folks with a shared interest can connect and hang out. Second Saturday of every month, 5-7 PM. A straightforward scene, no pretense.

ONYX Deep South Bar Night brings the Bear Cave to life on the second Saturday of every month — a gathering for bears and masculine-identified men who want to kick back with their people. 9 PM to midnight, no pretense,...

The weekly reset that actually makes Sunday worth it — half-priced cocktails and cheap domestics until 8pm, then a $5 cover gets you into the room where the regulars are already having a good time. This is the kind of...

Tuesday nights belong to the people who work in hospitality, entertainment, and nightlife — Industry Night is their standing invitation to unwind with a crew that gets it. No cover for industry workers, half-priced cocktails and cheap domestics until 8pm,...

Pup play night in the Main Bar with a dedicated mosh area, padding, and toys to explore. Half-price drinks all night and no cover means you can show up, get comfortable, and just be yourself. Tuesday nights for the community...