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Newfest Queer Film Festival

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Sat, Oct 17 · 9:30 PM

Saturday, October 17, 2026

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John Michael invites his closest friends to a cabin in the Berkshires to celebrate his marriage. But soon, old flames, new secrets, and a competitive round of Meryl Streep karaoke threaten the group's dynamic.

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Aubin: Virtual Exclusives

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Aubin: Virtual Exclusives
Thursday, October 15th, 2026
1:00 AM

Four legacy short films from Aubin Pictures, available to stream exclusively. A chance to revisit a body of queer short filmmaking that rarely gets a wide audience, all from the comfort of your own couch.

Chavela (Virtual Exclusive)

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Chavela (Virtual Exclusive)
Thursday, October 15th, 2026
10:00 AM

Exclusive interview and performance footage from 1991 capture Chavela Vargas in her own words: a woman who dared to dress, speak, sing, and dream her extraordinary life into being.

Aubin Pictures 30th Anniversary: Screening + Conversation (Virtual)

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Aubin Pictures 30th Anniversary: Screening + Conversation (Virtual)
Thursday, October 15th, 2026
10:00 AM

Celebrate three decades of Aubin Pictures with a virtual screening and conversation, plus four legacy short films from the studio available to stream exclusively. A look back at the work that helped shape queer storytelling on screen, and a chance to hear the stories behind it from the people who made it.

An Evening With Cynthia Nixon (Voice & Visibility Award) + the Gilded Age Conversation

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An Evening With Cynthia Nixon (Voice & Visibility Award) + the Gilded Age Conversation
Monday, October 19th, 2026
8:00 PM

Join us for an evening with NewFest’s 2026 Voice & Visibility Award recipient Cynthia Nixon.

Corpus

90s

Corpus
Wednesday, October 21st, 2026
7:30 PM

Two party boys arrive at an upstate New York mansion for an unexpected evening of sexual abandon and supernatural horrors in this ode to the queer underground of the ‘90s.

Clarissa (International Centerpiece)

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Clarissa (International Centerpiece)
Thursday, October 22nd, 2026
7:30 PM

Adapted from Virginia Woolf's Mrs. Dalloway, a wealthy woman preparing for a party and a young soldier haunted by trauma confront the lingering weight of their pasts in Lagos, Nigeria.

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Sin Pelos en la Lengua (18+): Hablemos de nuestros miedos
Wednesday, October 14th, 2026
6:30 PM

LGBT Network Queens LGBT Center

As Halloween approaches, gather for an honest conversation about the fears we carry—real and imagined. This Spanish-language discussion circles around what scares us, how we're learning to face those fears, and the stories we tell ourselves. A safe, judgment-free space to share what you're working through and how you're getting stronger.

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Long Island Transgender Experience (lite)
Wednesday, October 14th, 2026
7:00 PM

LGBT Network Queens LGBT Center

LITE is a weekly gathering for trans folks 18+ on Long Island—a space designed for community, support, and genuine connection. Show up, be yourself, and spend an evening with people who get it.

Intuitive Interpretation: A Tarot Workshop

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Intuitive Interpretation: A Tarot Workshop
Wednesday, October 14th, 2026
7:00 PM

Hive Mind Books & Coffee Shop

Aquarius Moon Tarot is leading an all-levels workshop designed to deepen your connection to your intuition through tarot. Whether you're picking up a deck for the first time or you've been reading for years, this is a chance to explore what the cards can teach you about trusting yourself.

Commando

Leather

Commando
Wednesday, October 14th, 2026
Time TBD

HUSH

Commando is HUSH's weekly Wednesday party with a clear dress code: come in your gear and let it do the talking. The room leans into leather, harness, and fetish culture, with a crowd that takes the theme seriously and makes it easy to feel at home. Expect a lively dance floor and a relaxed, unpretentious night in Hell's Kitchen.

Kocky Bingo with Kamila Kockman

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Kocky Bingo with Kamila Kockman
Wednesday, October 14th, 2026
7:00 PM

Boxers NYC

Wednesday nights belong to Kamila Kockman's bingo — the Fire Island superstar keeps the energy high, the prizes flowing, and the crowd coming back. Grab the 2-for-1 happy hour until 9pm, then settle in for a night of drag bingo that doesn't feel like work. Get lucky, win the jackpot, and see why this midweek reset is a community favorite at Boxers NYC.

Trans and Gender Non-Conforming Adult Support Group

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Trans and Gender Non-Conforming Adult Support Group
Wednesday, October 14th, 2026
7:00 PM

Brooklyn Community Pride Center

A weekly peer-led support space for trans and gender non-conforming adults (18+) to connect, share experiences, and support one another in a confidential, affirming environment. Whether you're navigating transition, community, relationships, or just need to be around people who get it, this judgment-free group meets every Wednesday evening, facilitated by Brooklyn Community Pride Center staff. Some sessions may be held via Zoom with registration required — contact tgnc@lgbtbrooklyn.org for details or alternate ways to join.