Arcade Gaymer Saturdays

Spill the tea… and then some. DIRTY LITTLE SECRET is your new Friday night obsession at Rockbar NYC. Hosted by the one and only Lita Desire Valenciaga—freshly crowned Mx. Rockbar 2026—this weekly show brings bold performances, juicy surprises, and just the right amount of scandal. Every Friday at 8PM, expect fierce drag, unfiltered fun, and a few secrets that probably shouldn't be shared… but will be anyway. Come early, stay messy.

Sexy trivia and shenanigans hosted by Angela Mansberry on the fourth Friday of every month at 8pm. A reliably fun night that blends brains, laughs, and just the right amount of flirtation — exactly the kind of event that keeps regulars coming back.

DJ Byron James is spinning house, classics, and R&B all afternoon—the kind of Sunday that actually makes you want to get out early. Fade to Black's day party at Rockbar is where the Black queer community comes together to dance, celebrate, and have a genuinely good time. 4pm to 10pm, and the energy builds all day.

Monday nights at Rockbar belong to the smart mouths and the chaos — Oral Exam Trivia is the loud, questionably educational tradition that's become a neighborhood staple. Hosted by Jason Romas, it's drink, yell answers, flirt with your competition, and fight for a $50 bar tab. Bad behavior expected, smart mouths encouraged.

Rope At Rockbar is Knotty New York's new monthly suspension and bondage night — a gathering for riggers, curious learners, and anyone who appreciates the artistry of rope. Watch skilled performers execute live suspension demos on Rockbar's brand-new ceiling anchor mounts, one of the few setups like this in the city. Whether you're here to learn technique, meet experienced riggers, or simply take in the scene, it's a kink-positive space built for all experience levels. Cocktails, community, and plenty to admire.

New York's monthly fisting social for all experience levels — no judgment, no pressure, just people who get it gathering to connect. Whether you're curious, experienced, or anywhere in between, FFriendly is built on the idea that showing up is what matters. Meet like-minded folks, make new friends, and be exactly who you are. Hosted by @red_panda_matt on the last Wednesday of every month.