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Provincetown has been a refuge and creative haven for LGBTQ+ people for decades — the kind of place where you can walk down the street and feel genuinely seen, where the community isn't performing for anyone else's comfort. The whole town has this relaxed, anything-goes energy that comes from generations of queer people building something real here, not just a tourist attraction but an actual home where you can be exactly who you are.

The scene here spans everything from the Boatslip Resort's legendary afternoon tea dances on the beach to drag shows at The Crown & Anchor that pack the room with locals and visitors who actually know how to have fun. You've got the Post Office Cafe & Cabaret for cabaret nights, the Red Room for dancing, and smaller spots like Gifford House where the vibe is more about community than spectacle — which is exactly the point, emphasized by the various theme weeks throughout the year, like Bear Week, Frolic, Women's Week, Baby Dyke, Carnival, and Spooky Bear.

Dog Tag Tea

Heated Rival Tea

The Real Housewives of Tea Dance

I Love the 90s

Mrs Roper Goes to Tea

Pretty in Pink

Solid Gold Tea

17 upcoming LGBTQ+ events in Provincetown, including at Boatslip Resort & Beach Club from Jul 16 to Aug 1.

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LGBTQ+ Events in Provincetown

17 upcoming LGBTQ+ events in Provincetown's vibrant community

The Boatslip's legendary Friday afternoon tea dance gets a military-inspired twist — think camo, combat boots, and dog tag chic. It's the same packed dance floo...

Boatslip Resort & Beach Club

Show up in your favorite team jersey for this spirited afternoon at the legendary Tea Dance — Resident DJ Maryalice keeps the energy high and the scoreboard run...

Maryalice

Wigs high, standards low, drama at 4. Come dressed to stir it up—resident DJ Maryalice runs the show.

The '90s and 2000s pop anthems and guilty pleasures that defined a generation — the kind of songs that still hit different on a dance floor. Come as you are to ...

The Boatslip's legendary Tea Dance gets a Golden Girls twist — think caftans, curls, and beads as the whole crowd channels their inner Helen Roper. It's the kin...

Dance to New Wave hits from the '80s with DJ Chris Ewen (ManRay, Magnetic Fields) spinning at the Boatslip's iconic outdoor deck. Dress code: pink. It's a theme...

Chris Ewen

Provincetown's ultimate disco revival lands on the Boatslip's legendary outdoor deck. Classic 70s and 80s dance hits get remixed, remade, and replayed by DJ Mar...

DJ Maryalice

The Boatslip's legendary Friday afternoon Tea Dance gets a military twist — camo, combat boots, dog tags, and gear welcome. It's the same packed dance floor and...

Dress in your favorite team jersey and join the crowd at the Boatslip's legendary Tea Dance — this one's got a competitive edge. Resident DJ Maryalice keeps the...

Dive into the best (and guiltiest) club anthems and pop hits from the '90s and 2000s at the Boatslip's legendary Tea Dance. Come as you are — this is about the ...

A Roper Romp Boatslip-style — calling all Helens and Stanleys to the legendary Tea Dance for a gloriously campy afternoon. Caftans, curls, and beads encouraged;...

New Wave takes over the Boatslip's outdoor deck for an afternoon of pure '80s nostalgia. DJ Chris Ewen (ManRay, Magnetic Fields) is spinning the synth-pop hits ...

Provincetown's ultimate disco revival lands on the Boatslip's legendary outdoor deck — classic 70s and 80s dance hits remixed and replayed by DJ Maryalice, wher...

The Boatslip's legendary Friday afternoon Tea Dance gets a military-inspired twist — think camo, combat boots, and dog tag chic. It's the same packed dance floo...

A themed tea dance where the competition is all in good fun — show up in your favorite sports jersey and mesh gear, and join the crowd on the Boatslip's legenda...

Gay & LGBTQ+ Events in Provincetown

Fri

Dog Tag Tea

Sat

Heated Rival Tea

Sun

The Real Housewives of Tea Dance

Mon

I Love the 90s

Tue

Mrs Roper Goes to Tea

Wed

Pretty in Pink

Thu

Solid Gold Tea

Fri

Dog Tag Tea

Sat

Heated Rival Tea

Sun

The Real Housewives of Tea Dance

Mon

I Love the 90s

Tue

Mrs Roper Goes to Tea

Wed

Pretty in Pink

Thu

Solid Gold Tea

Fri

Dog Tag Tea

Sat

Heated Rival Tea

Sun

The Real Housewives of Tea Dance