Arcade Gaymer Saturdays

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Every Saturday at 3 PM, Arcade is your standing gaymer date at Rockbar — video games, card games, board games, and whatever competition Shane Cherry dreams up that week. No cover, no pressure, just a room full of people who actually want to play and have fun doing it. Prizes and contests keep things interesting; the crowd keeps it welcoming.

Dance Party

Gorditos is the last-Saturday-of-the-month party at Rockbar NYC where house, hip hop, Latin and Top 40 take over the floor, spun by the Gorditos crew themselves, @nobl3_b3ar and @goodbunnypg. It's hosted by @realassdstach, with a $10 cover at the door. Come for the mix, stay for the dancing.

Dance Party

DJ Byron James is spinning house, classics, and R&B all afternoon—the kind of Sunday that actually makes you want to get out early. Fade to Black's day party at Rockbar is where the Black queer community comes together to dance, celebrate, and have a genuinely good time. 4pm to 10pm, and the energy builds all day.

Trivia

Monday nights at Rockbar belong to the smart mouths and the chaos — Oral Exam Trivia is the loud, questionably educational tradition that's become a neighborhood staple. Hosted by Jason Romas, it's drink, yell answers, flirt with your competition, and fight for a $50 bar tab. Bad behavior expected, smart mouths encouraged.

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Rope At Rockbar is Knotty New York's new monthly suspension and bondage night — a gathering for riggers, curious learners, and anyone who appreciates the artistry of rope. Watch skilled performers execute live suspension demos on Rockbar's brand-new ceiling anchor mounts, one of the few setups like this in the city. Whether you're here to learn technique, meet experienced riggers, or simply take in the scene, it's a kink-positive space built for all experience levels. Cocktails, community, and plenty to admire.

Social Events

New York's monthly fisting social for all experience levels — no judgment, no pressure, just people who get it gathering to connect. Whether you're curious, experienced, or anywhere in between, FFriendly is built on the idea that showing up is what matters. Meet like-minded folks, make new friends, and be exactly who you are. Hosted by @red_panda_matt on the last Wednesday of every month.